the wedding

the couples, the families, the guests & the cats :

 The house are full with my aunties & cousins since tuesday.  I add myself to crowd on thursday.  This is the time where everyone meets, everyone talking, gossips in the air.  My aunties sebelah mak are all 'kompangs'; so the house is full with their loud voices, laughter and yelling.
Everything went well though it rained heavily in the afternoon. Biasa la...apa2 event pun mesti ada benda yang tak kena kan. Pengantin terlambat, kerusi tak cukup, lupa bawak bunga manggar...whatever!  Both my sister and brother cuma beza dua tahun, they were born in the same hospital, ward sebelah menyebelah; coincident pulak wedding pun sekali.  Since there are two 'pengantins', so the family table had to be splitted into two; ada pulak la yang tak cukup tempat & komplen kata "saya tak puas hati...".  Awat makcik...tak boleh ka duduk kat meja biasa?  Most of the guests are my parents' friends.  I invited only few friends, well...not my wedding anyway kan, and errr... some invited their friends along.

Hmmm...so the cats had to be caged.  I thought of sending them for boarding, tapi tuan punya kata kesian...takut stress.  So, duduk la dua2 tu dalam banglow besi dua tingkat.  One of the reason why i proposed not to have the wedding at home is because of them, and of course the chaos, kena kemas rumah, orang ramai, stress sana sini, budak2 ramai, bising...etc.

the flowers, the music :

I love flowers. Walaupun CikguMat kata tak payah letak kat tangga, nanti susah orang nak pegang...i letak jugak! 
I was quite surprise jugak when CikguMat proposed to put on some music, of course dengan beberapa syarat... only certain kind of music allowed, and not too loud.  We downloaded gamelan music, orang yang jaga PA tu pulak degil, sibuk nak pasang lagu dia yang ntahapa2, kuat pulak tu... Moral, if someone pays you, he/she is the boss; so please listen :)

me :

As expected, i received lots of queries.  Most of them are answered with a smile.  Malas nak sembang panjang, nanti tension pulak orang yang tanya tu...hehehe.  I was prepared for all this, in fact i'm always prepared; so takde la timbul rasa2 marah atau tension.  Apa nak tension2 lak...orang lain yang kawin, kan.  Tension; bukan sebab orang tanya or sebab adik2 dah kawin.  Tension; sebab sometimes i find it more difficult to communicate with certain people.  Mungkin sebab orang tua; or perhaps sebab i yang semakin tua...hahahha