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Imagine this.  A single mom with three teenagers, has a few male chatting friends, and is dating/meeting those men.  Anything wrong with the picture?


Nothing is wrong since she's single.  She has her right to chat with anyone; male or female.  She might be lonely; let's assume that all her kids are grown up, living elsewhere or studying, so she needs someone to talk to.  She's free to date or meet anyone.


But, what if the men she's dating are married?  Ask me and my answer is 'no'.  She has no right to date any man who has wife and children waiting at home.  She has no right to act like teenagers, to meet any man in the middle of the night, to take couple photos or to get excited about the date.  That's all meant for teenagers, for her children.


I'm a bit traditional bab2 cenggini.  I won't let myself mess up dengan laki orang.  If i have kids, i won't let my kids watch me giggling over the phone macam budak2 tingkatan satu baru belajar subjek sains.  What if diaorang rasa keluar malam and balik after midnight is not wrong, regardless dengan kawan laki atau pompuan.  What if the photos i took terlepas kemana2.  Who knows, henpon tu terhilang ke, yang jumpa henpon tu pulak sepupu kepada bini laki tu.  Buatnya tangan dia gatal godek2 gambar dalam tu.  Buatnya dia tunjuk kat bini orang tu...ohhhh, that's too much to imagine.


I don't understand.  Sometimes i think single ladies would have better judgment than single parent.  Single ladies mean single la kan, yang tak pernah and not currently mempunyai husband.  I'm not saying all of them behave the same, i know some are good, devoted mom.  Cuma lately, macam selalu je terjumpa (terjumpa kat pesbuk, terdengar, terjumpa face-to-face ...etc) dengan perempuan macam ni.  Adakah once you have a husband maka if your husband leaves you maka macamana sekalipun you need to have a man with you?  Does flirting satisfies your needs?  Ataupun it's a kind of revenge?  Maybe you need to show off to your ex bahawasanya you masih lagi laku?  I think that's the main reason kot.  Mungkin sebab rasa sakit hati kena tinggal, especially if kena tinggal sebab dia ada perempuan lain.  So, untuk puaskan hati sendiri, or more likely to prove to your own self that ada laki lain yang boleh ganti tempat dia.  Well, why not?  Kalau betul yakin that you'll have delightful life ahead dengan adanya sorang laki, then go ahead.  Tapi, boleh tak don't act as if you are 17, and please be a little bit choosy, jangan la husband orang...


Siapakah yang i maksudkan?  hahhahaa.....  ada la !!!