Something on the radio caught my ears while eating nasik goreng dalam kereta on the way back home few days back. PK explained that the male caller tengah confuse camane nak explain to his gf that he's getting married to another girl. Yes...he has two gfs at the same time. My reaction was "bodoh betul laki ni" but PK's answer yang sebenarnya betul "tak, laki ni pandai...". I instantly agreed; "betul...pompuan yang bodoh, kan".
Laki memang la bijak. Ada dua gf at the same time, senang nak pilih mana yang sesuai kan. Pompuan is always on the losing side. Biasanya pompuan will only choose one man walaupun at the same time ada 43 orang lagi yang beratur nak kat dia. Laki pulak akan on je dengan semua 43 pompuan, then only choose the best. Tak ke bijak tu?
Pompuan ni kekadang memang pelik. You knew the man dah ada anak bini, and yet you still wanna be his kekasih gelap. Reasons will always go like...'he's not happy with the wife', 'the marriage is on the rocks anyway..' and so on. The lines are actually to soothe your own guilt rather than explaining kan. If he's not happy, then he has to settle that; siapa la kita nak meng'happy'kan orang yang tak happy tu. How sure are we that he'll be happy with us?
A friend of mine is now about to selingkuh with her own in-law. Boleh gitu...? Out of soooo many men out there, she chose her own SIL's husband. I'm not saying that it's okay to have an affair with husband orang but if you had no other choice; say you'll be pancung putus kepala if you don't wanna choose one; so...if me, i'd rather choose husband orang lain yang i tak kenal dari pilih husband orang yang i kenal, lagi kan pulak my own in-law. I've asked her if she's doing this because her husband (her SIL's brother) left her for another women, so dia nak balas dendam or whatever; but she said 'no'. I don't understand why she's putting herself as low as that women yang telah mengambik husband dia. In fact, she's lower than that women because at least that women ambik husband orang yang dia tak kenal...ye dak? Either way, i tetap tak setuju dengan hal2 yang berkaitan dengan husband orang ni. It's not gonna benefit any party anyway. Ye la, with his reputation of leaving his wife for you; don't you think that he has the potential to do the same to you? Sebaik-baiknya do not try to be nice or friendly to anyone attached, akan memudaratkan diri sendiri nanti, percaya la. Biar je la diaorang yang bermasalah ni cari kaunselor di kalangan kaum sejenis je ye. Nampak je laki dah kawin nak bercakap dengan you, cepat2 tutup muka lari tempat lain...haha.
Another lady friend pulak ber'affair' dengan someone at office. Dia tak le berselingkuh dengan husband orang but she dumped her fiance for this guy because of $$. I don't actually know who's smart here. She; did everything she could menackle this guy untuk kesenangan hidup dia, bijak la tu in her way kan. He; tries everything he could (which is not difficult literally) to get whatever he could from this lady (mmm...apa tu ye?) using his wealth. See, maknanya apa?
Whatever it is; it's we ourselves who decides kan. If you think it's right, nak jugak buat...go on, but jangan dok mengadu plak nanti kalau the same thing happen to you. If you rasa taknak, dari awal try to avoid. If you need advice, sila la refer to rakan sebaya & sejenis & make sure you really, really need to hear the opinion...kalau rasa taknak dengar takyah susah2kan orang bagi nasihat ye.
Being a concern (cheh...!!) friend , i did all i could to change my friend's view on her intention to berdua-duaan with her SIL's husband but guess what...‘aku kesian tengok ko kesian kat aku…’ boleh gitu? I'm confuse here...sapa yang ada problem skarang ni...?? I'm not a good person myself, i need guidance all the time, i don't trust my own judgements so i need friends around me. We never know when we are about to termelencong kannn, kalau kita sedar benda tu salah takkan la kita nak buat jugak, kannn. Like PK telah tanya dengan suara mak tirinya dengan sapa i nak keluar tengok Avatar hari tu...she said she'll ketuk my head kalau i ber'keluar'an dengan tunangan orang itu...hehe. I'm glad to have someone yang boleh membawa i ke jalan yang lurus gitu; ye la...we (+ the setan in ourselves) can always make thousands of excuses to menyedapkan hati sendiri...kannn?
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